Code of Conduct
As a parent, you play a special role in contributing to the needs and development of youngsters.Through your encouragment and good example, you can help assure that all the boys and girls learn good sportsmanship and self-discipline. In AYSO, young people learn to work together, to sacrifice for the good of the team, to enjoy winning and deal appropriately with defeat - all while becoming physically fit and healthy. Best of all, they have fun.
Support Your Child
Supporting your child by giving encouragement and showing interest in their team is very important. Help your child work toward skill improvement and good sportsmanship
in every game. Teach your child that hard work and an honest effort are
often more important than victory - that way your child will always be
a winner despite the outcome of the game!
Always Be Positive
Parents serve as role models
for their children. Become aware of this and work to be a positive role
model. Applaud good plays by your child's team as well as good plays by
the opposing team.
Support all efforts to remove verbal and physical abuse from youth sports activities.
Remember: Your Child Wants To Have Fun
Remember
that your child is the one playing soccer, not you. It's very important
to let children establish their own goals - to play the game for
themselves. Take care not to impose your own standards and goals on
them. Don't put too heavy a burden on your child to win games. Surveys
reveal that 72% of children would rather play for a losing team than
ride the bench for a winning team.Children play for the fun of playing.
Reinforce Positive Behavior
Positive
reinforcement is the best way to help your child achieve their goals
and their natural fear of failure. Nobody likes to make mistakes. If
your child does make one, remember it's all part of learning, so
encourage your child's efforts and point out the good things your child
accomplished.
Don't Be a Sideline Coach or Referee
Coaches
and referees are usually parents just like you. They volunteer their
time to help make your child's youth soccer experience a positive one.
They need your support too. That means refraining from coaching or refereeing from the
sidelines. As a volunteer organization, there's usually always an
opportunity for you to take your interest in coaching or refereeing to
the next level and become one yourself!